Idelle Keegan's Book
Breaking Free from Toxic Love
Here is the translation: "My boyfriend doesn't let me wear skirts or put on makeup so that other men won't find me attractive. ‘You say you're going to a music festival, do you really need to dress up so flamboyantly?’ ‘I just want to please myself.’ ‘Take off your makeup, or don’t go!’ I reluctantly removed my makeup and changed into jeans. At the music festival, my boyfriend took out a ring and proposed to me. I couldn't take it anymore. ‘Get lost, you凤凰男 (a term used in Chinese culture to describe a man who comes from a humble background but asserts superiority after achieving success)!”