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ine. Even if it was a device i had bought with my own money, i wanted another one and why? if you asked me, because i wanted a device that would blow me away with its amazing features that would simply beat my imagination and match my explorer mind. With time I realised that i was moving from phone to phone and still no phone satisfied me a 100 percent so as a result i learnt one big lesson to say "t

set of easy processes that you can to do on your own. At the same time there is need for you to identify some strategic people and things that will help you on the way to self discovery. In the next chapters be my guest as I put you through the applied basic principles and real life examples on how you will achieve it. I'm so glad that I had been a student of experience which the wise say is the best teacher. But the time you will get to the last page of this resource you will be in a place and position to conquer everything that has been conquering you for years. It could be inferiority complex, bad attitude, bad morals, drug addiction which I started battling with since my teenage years or it could be discontentment about your race, colour, height, body weight, source of income, painful past experience etc maybe somebody said something terri

to live. Knowing everything that weighs you down and gives you the know how about how you can take advantage of a chance to make a serious decision which will help become the person you want to become. It helps you on how best you can utilise your abilities and for you to change what you need changed about yourself also what not. It boarders much of you taking full responsibility of your life as you are the CEO of your own life. As human being from whichever part of the world we come from its important to know that we all at some point need to go through the said process in many areas of our lives. Truth be told because living here on earth is no bed of roses and there ar

ou are. We are all different people who have different energies, looks, preferences, personalities positive and negative sides, successes and failures e.t.c and that explai

power of self acceptance comes with great responsibilities. In accepting who you are, its an error for you to accept yourself for the negative ill stuff e.g sayings like ''i am an armed robber'' I am a prostitute'' ''i am a lier'' e.t.c because accepting who you are mean

ried my best working hard in those areas i couldn't attain achievements and deep down in my heart i had no joy. In all that i did I felt a feeling of discontentment, wasted time and energy e.t.c but the lesson i learnt here was as clear as glass, i never took time to do a self discovery survey by my self or with the help of others like family and friends, career guidance teacher e.t.c then i discovered that it didn't have to be basketball but creative writing, that it didn't have to be pool but motivational speaking, that it didn't have to be a mean Michael but a Michael with a heart so big

e what you want to do, in business when we talk about a product, the marketer and advertiser knows what product they are selling. Marketing or advertising is what makes it easier to sell the product or brand. Just so you know, in life we human beings are brands and products which is why it's very important for any one to know this as it helps you to become the best product and best brand that that you were born to be so that you can quit being the unpleasant brand circumstances and ignorance turned you to into. Begin by knowing yourself starting from your fears, attitude, strengths, weaknesses, abilities, desires, likes, dislikes, expectation, dreams, preferences, personality, socializing, talents, ambitions, vision, purpose e.t.c and see

a powerful choice making that awesome decision that only the brave can make knowing that if you put your mind to good use is could just be that powerful tool that can turn your life around for the better as its that powerful and everything banks on the choices you make in life. If you don't use the brain well then it can turn to be a terrible weapon that I call "an enemy within " working against you in many ways than i can mention. That's why on your quest to self discover the most reliable and effective way that guarantees you joy, success, positive mind and attitude, good life, contentment etc. It's one way that shows the helps your unwrap your inner beauty. You get a great chance and resources to be branded as somebody who is a right minded person, somebody people would find easy to relate

ng it or putting it on because its yours as you bought it because you love it, at times people may be looking at you and you would think that they are looking down on you when they are busy envying you. To self discover is to grasp on the understanding of being confortable in your own skin, attaining the necessary knowledge that is meant to help you to be confortable in your own skin thats why you must know that as long as you have a lower self esteem, even if you wear the same shoe with dormer US president Barrack Obama, you may feel as if your shoe sucks when it actually doesn't suck, when its the best shoe in the world and you feel that way due to lower

t's not even a good product, it can be injurious to you and your surrounding so make sure to undergo a self discovery quest. There is little to give but a whole lot to benefit which is why i urge you time and again to spend time, effort and money on things that you can change. Things worth changing and leave out what you can't change, you can change your behavior from bad to worse which is not g

the abilities, reputation etc and its the picture one paints of himself as to be perceived in a particular or like manner here a self image is what you build for your self and its important for you to present your self or advertise yourself in a certain positive way. Even to market yourself as a brand and product. There is need for you to be that person who can be of positive influence in the lives of other through your educ

hers. How you handle the past if you are not so tied to it or if you are. If you are able to move on or not. There are things that endanger the self esteem of so many people in life no matter how attractive, rich or important they are in society like fear, failures, frustration, rejection, to be a victim of rape, to be a victim of defilement, to be a victim of gender based or domestic violence or this like cheating, to discover that you have been cheated, brutality, inability to handle anger or loss of employment, loss of a loved one, lo

tell of the public image is Fally that he is a star, he doesn't just say it, he rocks it on stage and in music videos then he wears it, looks it and lives it. He is a brand and thats

ay be making a great mistake if you did that. But for a change I urge to look at your face in the mirror and stare at your face and say ''i am beautiful if you are a lady or say im handsome if you are a male. Because you are unique an

pecial, unique and one of a kind which is very true because there is no one like you. This realisation may seem simple but just so you know it can b

to being passionate about what you do or aspire to be, on your way to success know that through self discovery you become aware of the fact that the easy road leads to no where, even in being your self and fighting for your dreams, ambitions, desires and all that you desire to be or accomplish in life you must know that trials, challenges, tribulations will be there at one point or the other that's why i say do not be discouraged and do not quit for its a known fact that quitters never win and winners never quit. Happiness and success is not for the weak but for the strong, brave and courageous. I want you to know that all it takes is for you to self discover so that you self recover. Why must

s or ripping them is because dressing in an immoral way is contrary to the cultural values of we Africans. At times they could even resort to beating her up in broad day light in displeasure which shows the fact that well meaning Zambians wouldn't take kindly to immoral behavior, even if the ladies intensions are not to seduce men and she is doing it all in the name of fashion but peoples reaction would send a strong message and the woman may be said to be an immoral person even if she's not. That's why as we en

d take months even years depending on your perso

ing that we all ought to have in us, discipline is key to many things such as good health, success, long life, good reputation, self worth e.t.c so we should know that in self discovery, you can't

c that's your place in the family and it's wise to do the right thing, as a child you might love your parent or not but always remember they are your parent something that you can't change so you can't fight nature just respect your pare

If you are a male know that your being the head of a family one day will be a must, to be a husband, father, provider, protector, e.t.c, as a female your responsibility will be loving, caring, submitting, obedient, respectful, suppor

the Love Doctor and why in the world did I even think of playing a role from the fiction movie that was pure script work of an expert entertainer? I guess i was nuts in the head and sick of being by myself with nobody to tell me a sweet good night because i was insecure and could not face a young lady to ask her to be that bright sunshine i needed in my life. How i knew i had grown past that phase was when i proposed a young lady until i overcame i tell you she was beautiful. Before my self discovery each moment i played with no script thin

iting time on, many people who don't really know who they are are usually unproductive, unhappy, unfulfilled and not succesful. Truth is that you only live once and today is the day for you to live your life and make the decisions that you will act upon. Knowing that tomorrow is a day nobody is promised that's why at the end of each day put your life under scrutiny and ask your self before you go to bed if you are happy about how you

d a to do list that you should discipline yourself to stick to no matter what, because you must also know that keeping time, time management, project management and undertaking, small things like telling the truth, being honest, faithful, hardworking, passionate as well as knowing that passion should not lac